Leadership Embodiment by Wendy Palmer and Janet Crawford. This book has given me an insight and tools to practice being centered, recognizing when one is off center and shifting back to center quickly in various circumstances. It offers useful distinctions like “personality and center” to illustrate the energetically different ways of relating to the world. The way it was brought across using examples of body postures made it more comprehendible and enabled me to start paying more attention to the way I hold my own body throughout my day. It also was really helpful in the work with clients as I could notice when the clients were shifting off center. There were centering exercises in the book which I found complemented well my “arsenal” of practices at hand. During coaching encounters I could use them in situations when I noticed myself or the client shifting off the center. What I found was that this tends to happen as experiential avoidance kicks in when entering areas that are not too pleasant.

No Boundary by Ken Wilber. This book was a little special for me. As soon as I saw it on the coaches’ bookshelf, I knew I wanted to read it. And I was not disappointed. I remember the time I was reading it – I was doing it slowly over a month or two. At that time, I was really immersed in it. I was looking at the world through the lens of the book and everything that happened in my experience could be related to it. I find it amazing, how now, reopening the book and flipping over the first pages, I find it resonating on such high frequencies. The main theme of the book is unity consciousness. The way Eckhart Tolle put it across in a recent email was “(..) Ultimately you are not a person, but a focal point where the universe is becoming conscious of itself.” This essential idea seems to be central for all major religions. As I was reading through the first pages of the book where people were sharing their experiences of this, I clearly remembered my own, however, there is a certain resistance to it. Caution as in the mainstream culture such sensitivity to experiences are seemingly not acknowledged (here I am demonstrating a split between myself and the mainstream culture). I find affirmation in those sharings. The experience of an individual feeling without any doubt that he or she is fundamentally one with the entire universe. According to what Wilber is writing here, the unity consciousness is the nature of all sentient beings, however in our mainstream society we progressively limit our world to embrace boundaries. That creates various levels and identities – each with different boundaries – each of those having a version of an answer to the question “who am I?”.